Best Positions for Anal Sex
“She's so boring, she just doesn't move” ... “He's so rigid.”
If you don't like to hear things like this about your sex life, you are strongly advised to calm your nerves and dive into more adventurous sexual activities.
Trust me when I say that every man wants a slutty goddess in bed, especially if you're naturally shy on the outside.
When you find yourself wanting to explore your sex life and add every single spice you can think of, you'll find that anal sex becomes your new compass.
Anal and vaginal sex are like having two of the same or, at the very least, similar objects that give close possibilities. Once you get to the point where you need more than regular sex, which happens all the time, you'll find it very comforting to know that you have another shot.
Now, anal sex is straightforward, the same way basketball is, but that doesn't mean no skill is required. In fact, without some skill, you'll find basketball very troublesome. The same principle applies to anal sex. The lack of knowledge in this regard is more than enough to ruin your anal sex experience and, worse, to offend your partner.
To help you on your journey to anal ecstasy, we've comprised several anal sex positions for you to explore for a memorable and pleasurable experience.
Doggy Style
This is no doubt that this is the most common anal sex position. It has been over-explored in movies, porn, and all sorts of similar engagements. Most people who engage in anal sex are unaware of other possible positions to explore.
It involves making your partner bend on all fours and sometimes tilt their ass forward against the penetrator while he pushes inside.
As the name suggests, the doggy style is an excellent display of the way most animals have intercourse. It is one of the most straightforward ways of having sex because it does not involve that much close contact or twist by both parties.
Penetration is usually deepest during doggy since there are no limiting factors to push your partner back. This rightly puts doggy style as one of the most recommended anal sex positions you can ever want to engage in.
Lap Dance
As the name implies, exactly it is as one would give or receive a lap dance, except that you would both be naked and somebody is penetrating somebody else. In the lap dance position, the female sits on the male’s penis while achieving anal penetration. It is advisable to use a chair so your partner's feet can touch the ground for support.
This position is perfect for couples just trying anal for the first time. This is because you can easily pull away if a lot of uncomfortable tension happens down there. It'll also help both of you slowly welcome the feeling of anal experience.
To make matters better, since there's proximity, unlike doggy, you can use your hand to add other stimulation like clitoris fingering or caressing her breasts.
Your partner can also decide how far down she wants to sit, implying how deep your penis goes. If you're new to anal, you might want to make it as shallow as possible.
Anal Missionary
Most anal sex involves turning one's face away from your partner making it difficult to achieve eye contact with one's partner, but anal missionary is quite the opposite.
If you're the type who enjoys making eye contact with your partner, or if both of you are trying anal sex for the first time, eye contact is a huge plus, as it will mentally connect both of you.
Anal missionary is just like the regular missionary, except penetration is in the anus. The similarities with regular missionaries make it easy to relish the same opportunities such as breast caress, nipple play, and even massaging the clit. This gives the deep romantic connection that most people complain anal sex doesn't offer.
For anal virgins, you might want to put some pressure on your partner's hip with your legs to restrict him from too-deep penetration. If that isn't enough, you might want to push your hand against his chest too.
For professionals, to achieve even deeper penetration, you can put a pillow underneath your butt to raise your anus to a more comfortable position.
Spooning
Laying down lazily and having sex might not be such an appealing idea to most people, but to some, it makes them relax their nerves totally and add to their overall sensation, making them likely to achieve orgasm faster.
If you're one of such, this position is perfect for you since it involves you and your partner lying on your sides while he penetrates you from the back.
Suppose you're worried that it might be a very dull sex experience. In that case, you can spice it up for each other by reaching out and adding more stimulation to other sensitive areas like the nipples, clitorises, etc.
Since your back would be turned to your partner during penetration, you might not be able to get a lot of eye contact but trust me when I say the hot steamy contact of your back against his chest is more than enough to cover for it.
However, if you're the type who loves eye contact, you can occasionally glance at him. But trust me when I say you'd be too busy managing your emotions to bother. That big orgasm is coming your way sooner than you might realize.
To get even deeper penetration, you can raise your knees while your partner gets to thrust in deeper without your thighs pushing him back.
Cowgirl
Whether reverse or regular, the cowgirl position is some people's favorite position during vaginal sex. But did you know that you could change holes instead? Oh yes!
The principle is simple and the same as in vaginal sex. Get on top of your partner and guide his erection into your anus as slowly as possible and after a lot of lubrication.
If you're new to anal penetration, you might not want to sit totally on him, rather hold on at the very last second and put some of your weight on your knees instead. Slowly begin to guide in and out of your partner until you both find a rhythm.
Since it offers the same benefits as the regular cowgirl position, you would be able to add some more sensation to your partner's body and vice. These pleasures include kissing, sucking, caressing, and even fingering.
Full Throttle
Imagine missionary that involves pushing your partner's thighs all the way up as far as her chest if possible? Full throttle is one of the only anal sex positions that offer 100% penetration.
With your partner lying on her back, you push both hands against her thighs and even leave them there for support while you push your erection deep into her anus.
Unlike missionary, your partner will not be able to put pressure on your hip to restrict you from going in too deep, so you might want to be sure she is comfortable with it before you try.
For anal virgins, or those who are generally new to anal penetration, this position might not be the best due to the deep penetrations, but with enough lubrication, which should be used on the go while trying out anal sex generally, it isn't such a bad idea.
To raise the pelvic to the perfect position, you might want to add one or two pillows for support while you ram away.
Spork
One might think it would imply a very complex anal position, but it is the opposite. The spork is pretty easy and quite similar to the anal missionary.
Unlike missionary, though, your partner is not entirely above you; rather, he tilts to the side while you raise one of your thighs so that he can get in all the way.
Those who enjoy spork do it mostly because of the intimacy it offers. The fact that you would get a clear view of your partner's face during intercourse. Better still, you would be able to kiss passionately as well as steamy engagement in breast caress and nipple play.
Let's not forget the possibility of fingering and massaging the clit too. If you get all these sensations right, she would be a few minutes away from climax.
Backside
If you're familiar with sex positions, you'll know that regular lotus involves you sitting on your partner as in lap dance, except that you would be facing him, unlike lap dance. The eye contact and steamy skin-to-skin connection make this backside lotus desired by many.
If you're the type who likes to achieve intimacy during sex every chance you get, this position is the best for you. Your partner would be able to reach for your back since the proximity is there and would also caress your breasts to add to your overall sensation. It is worth a shot!
Side Note
Since the anus does not secrete self-lubricating fluids, the anus requires lubricants to enable smooth penetration, which you want since it will aid your relishing.
Anal penetration is one of the most enjoyable sexual experiences, when done thoughtfully. It can vastly increase your emotional bond, as you both engage in something new. It is the next step for any relationship and offers intense amounts of pleasure.