4 Ways to Use Anal Toys to Increase Your Pleasure
Many people cringe at the idea of anal penetration or generally any sexual activity that involves the anus. But then, most people aren't married and have explored vaginal sex to the fullest.
When you're at that stage, you'll start to realize that you might need to spice things up a bit; otherwise, you might encounter trouble in paradise. While there are certainly many ways to spice up your sex life, anal sex offers penetration and pleasure.
However, anal sex or any anal activity isn’t necessary default knowledge. Unlike regular sex, anal sex requires some research to aid stimulation, avoid risks, and ultimately produce a fantastic experience.
Relax, it's okay to be nervous, but I'm afraid that nervousness might be the exact factor that'll ruin your anal sex experience.
Don't just dive into anal activity like you own the place; instead, get more familiar with the sensation and the overall experience before you engage.
Now, how would you get familiar with anal sex? The answer is sex toys. Cheap, private, and effective.
If you go for the right sex toy, you'll realize exactly how it can slowly help you understand anal activity and the eroticism it provides.
What is the right sex toy?
Sorry to disappoint you, but there is no such thing as a 'right sex toy.' All sex toys are good, but knowing what works for you is crucial.
Like the vaginal shape, all butts come in different sizes and shapes. This includes the butthole too. It is essential to know that introducing a big sex toy upon first penetration might be difficult, uncomfortable, and even risky. The most advisable thing to do is to purchase according to your stage of familiarity. You can let your partner decide for you after close examination.
However, regardless of anal peculiarities, we've carefully selected four anal toys that would likely suit your needs and give you the experience you're looking for.
Butt Plugs
Butt plugs are so comfortable and easy to use that some people wear them for long hours, and by long hours, I'm talking shopping, dinner date and cinema kind of long hours. Some even feel comfortable wearing it to work. The silicone types are the best because they give you that feeling of raw skin, which you need to get familiar with. Also, they are water-resistant and hardly ever get damaged.
Butt plugs are just what you need to familiarize yourself with the anal penetrating sensation. It won’t go as far as making you cum, but it will surely pave your way into the anal world and make you ready to try out more stimulating anal toys.
Butt plugs are one of the cheapest anal toys you can find, and they are used across every country. So, if your desire to engage in anal penetration is due to adventure, then consider butt plugs your map, slowly guiding you into the most profound and most exciting anal discovery.
Now we have different types of butt plugs, so you'll have to find what suits you. For instance, some butt plugs come with a puppy or foxtail. While that might be an exciting kink addition and aid other bedroom practices like BDSM, it might not be so effective if you want to wear it outdoors or for long hours.
So, while choosing butt plugs, select what would be adequate for your particular desires.
Rimming Plugs
Otherwise known as anal beads. As the name rightly suggests, and if you've done any research at all about anal activity, you would know that a rim job is one of many anal plays you can engage in to get maximum pleasure.
However, for why a butt plug is highly advised if you're a newbie to anal penetration, rimming plugs are also highly efficient to introduce you to the rimming world. This anal sex toy is especially the favorite of many clinical sexologists.
Rimming plugs are so skillfully crafted, achieving both the penetration and the rimming at the same time. The silicone texture gives the smooth texture of the skin, and to top that, some have rotating beads at the neck that, upon penetration, mimic the feeling of getting licked in the butt.
It is battery-powered, so you can change it at any time and use it comfortably in your bedroom when you're alone or with your partner.
If you purchase the right ones, this USB rechargeable butt plug has seven different modes for the rotating beads to suit your taste. Since sexual agility isn't always the same, some have up to six rotation and vibration intensities, such that you can decide how much stimulation you want down there. Go wild and rough or slow and tempting.
From your excessive but satisfying cum, to the half glass of water on the table, and even to a warm steamy bath, none can pose a stumbling block or damage your rimming plug because it is 100% waterproof. This means your shower just got amplified.
Vibrators
This is no doubt one of the most used sex toys. From nipple stimulation to vaginal sex and even anal, vibrators come in handy and can easily boast of being one of the most desired sex toys out there.
A friend of mine explained how she had a very indifferent opinion about vibrators and sex toys generally. She doesn't hate them particularly, but she also didn't think it was necessary or useful. But then, at some point after a huge disagreement with her spouse, she knew she had to try something to bridge that gap again, so she decided to do something new to bring them together. She purchased a mini-USB vibrator for the first time. Since her husband has been exploring for a long time, she managed to get his attention.
Well, the bottom line is that due to the vibrator’s robust settings and applications, particularly in anal fun, it injected some new life into an aging marriage.
Just as in the case of the vagina, where you would rub the tip of the battery-powered vibrator on your clitoris, a similar task is required for anal sex. Except that rather than the clitoris, you would rub gently against the anus. If you intend to use your vibrator as both stimulants for your anus and vaginal, it is strongly advised that you clean it thoroughly to avoid infections.
If you're trying out anal sex for the first time, vibrators should be your to-go everywhere because of their durability, small size, and effectiveness.
Also, if you're the type who lives very close next door to nosy neighbors, you might want to purchase the noiseless ones to achieve absolute privacy. They only cost a few bucks more.
Strap-ons
Although many would argue that strap-ons are just regular sex toys but often handled by the female gender, that is not entirely true. Strap-ons so carefully crafted in place of a real penis to the extent that in the middle of sex, no one would care. The benefit of strap-ons in this regard is if you want to introduce smaller objects into your anus by a third party. Diving right into anal sex might be hard even after lubrication (which is strongly advised).
Strap-ons come with varying sizes of dicks which would enable you to choose the most comfortable one before you try out bigger ones and then an actual dick penetration.
Most strap-ons do not have any pleasure for the person wearing them. Therefore, strap-ons can help your partner purely observe your preferences during sex. In essence, your partner might not know what you want during sex because they are busy having fun. Using strap-ons with your partner would make you understand their rhythm better and know what depth and exactly how much pleasure they're deriving from the penetration. Most strap-ons are silicone, so you don't have to worry about it soaking in anything that might breed bacteria. If well cleaned after each use as directed, they are 100% safe.
As said, all sex toys come in various sizes to suit the user's needs, so if you're new to anal sex, you might want to go for the smallest size in everything. Then scale accordingly from there. This is also a great way for you and your partner to explore, create new sexual memories, and have something new to try together.
For many married couples or lifelong committed couples, anal sex generally becomes a topic of conversation at some point. Whether you’re tried and retreated or never tried, now is the time be more receptive to different types of pleasure. These experiences improve your mental and physical connection, giving you a new erotic encounter, and potentially providing a new play for your playbook.
Tonight, use that butt plug, shop for anal toys together, or simply try the vibrator on your anus as your man licks your clit. It’s that easy. Consider this a gateway into new orgasms you never thought possible.