A Picture Says a Thousand Words – How about a Video?
The porn industry has grown steadily over the past century or so, generating around 12 billion dollars of profit per year. It has launched the careers of many aspiring actors and actresses and even catapulted no-names into the spotlight of Hollywood. One famous example is that of Kim Kardashian and her clan of family members. None of them would be famous had she not made a sex tape with her then boyfriend, Rapper Ray J. For publicity and a healthy chunk of cash, Ray J leaked the footage to the press, skyrocketing the socialite from being Paris Hilton’s bag holder, to Hollywood mega star.
Not to be outdone, many other famous celebrities have undergone the “Sex Tape Saga” such as Pamela Anderson (with a few different lovers), J Lo and even the previously mentioned Paris Hilton. In an infamous turn of events, it skyrocketed their celebrity status instead of ruining their careers. But why did the leaking of their sex tapes make them so famous and not the scum of society? It’s because society loves to watch pornography in all its glory, watching people fucking from all angles is fascinating, especially if it includes someone famous.
But … watching porn can be tricky for many couples. Often, it’s dismissed in relationships as poor taste, offensive, or a path to breaking up/divorcing. At OTN, we think differently about this multi-billion-dollar industry. Pornography can actually create a path that can increase your sexual activity, promote healthy conversation and open your mind to new explorations. When used in an accepted space, porn is exciting, scintillating and wildly fun.
That said, let’s get down and dirty with the best fucking you’ve ever seen!
Watching Porn Together
Time to whip out the porn stash! Some people may believe that porn can only be watched by the single and dateless on a lonely Saturday night, but that’s far from true. Watching a porno with your partner is more common than you would think. Couples of all kinds are exposing themselves to the world of porn and realizing how much it can enhance their sex lives. The best part is that you don’t need to pay a cent to watch it together, because the sites I’m going to tell you about are free.
New videos are uploaded daily, eliminating the boredom of watching the same scene over and over, and satisfying all aspects of your sexual curiosity. RedTube, PornHub, XVideos, SpankBang and YouJizz, are just a few of the hundreds of online porn websites to feast your eyes on. With category selection you can filter straight to both of your desired videos, whether it be roleplay scenarios, hard core bondage or other couple’s raunchy home movies.
Even the shyest of couples will feel their groins stir watching Debbie get done doggy style over the kitchen counter by Hans the pool boy. Or maybe you’d prefer a scene of naughty nurse gives Daddy a sponge bath with her tongue? Whatever you're into, you can find it.
Using Porn in Your Relationship
Outside of generally watching porn, there are some great takeaways that can rev up your sex life. Let’s explore.
Watch and learn
There’s a lot you and your partner can learn from watching these somewhat professionals in action. Many of us are unsure of our expertise when it comes to even simple sex acts like the blowjob for example. There are cum loads of handy tricks to be learned from watching porn stars give head to their co-stars. The two-handed twist and suck would never have been an addition to my sexual repertoire, had I not seen it first on a porn video. If you need a guide on how to do it, simply search it up on RedTube, you won’t be disappointed.
Watch and learn more
Try out new positions that you’ve seen, but maybe never thought possible. It’s fun to hear and read about the many ways people manage to have sex, but most of us would never dare to try. Positions such as the Reverse Cowgirl for deep penetration and a new view for you both, the X Factor where your man lies across you for sideways penetration, and the Wheelbarrow (I wouldn’t try this one if you have a bad back) where he stands behind you, holding up your legs like you’re in a wheelbarrow race (but with a cock involved). Who needs Kama Sutra when we have porn videos to show us exactly what to do and where to put it?
Copy and enjoy
Reenacting a porn video that both of you love, is a great way to enjoy porn. This is simple and delicious fun. Simply select a video, the role you want to portray from the video, and the scene. Dress up like the porn stars, act like them, talk like them, and engage just like them. As you get going, your story may shift a little. It’s totally fine but try to come back to the highlights from the video. This allows you to truly enjoy something new and keep to the wild story you initially loved. And when you’re there … it’s pure pleasure.
Try something new
Discover different types of porn together. Chances are you’ve both seen porn at some point, but maybe you were never comfortable enough to bring it into the bedroom. Now you are, so don’t stay in a box, slowly uncover the delights of porn. Not everything will interest you, or even be a turn on. The goal is just to experiment with different types of videos on different websites, so you can learn what you both like. A man may love to watch two girls giving amazing blow jobs. A woman may love to watch double penetration. Both of you may enjoy a live BDSM session. Once you know what you like, you can find ways to inject it into your sex life. Keep judgment at bay and let lust drive you.
Mimic a threesome
Watching a live threesome, can help make it feel real in the bedroom. For instance, if it’s two girls and one guy, talk to your man about it. Ask him what he loves about the scene and what he wants you to do. Does he want you to be the slutty girl who can’t get enough, or the shy girl, who needs to be dominated? Whatever he wants, you can make it happen. Keep reminding him who you are in the scenario, and he will start using you just as he wants.
Videos are more than just porn – how about a D.I.Y home movie?
Sure, you can sift through hours of videos online, searching for the ones that please you both, or you can just go ahead and make your own. These days you can record on several different devices so pick one that is easy to position and adjust during your sex session. Your laptop camera will certainly work, but if you want a close-up view of her cum soaked pussy, you might want something a little easier to hold that won’t give her a concussion. May we recommend that stellar video function on your smart phone?
Planning your movie out with one another is a bonding experience in itself. You can both decide the role play scenario, your costumes (or lack of), sex positions and props. You could try filming in the other rooms of your house as well, you’ll just have to use your imagination. Bend her over the kitchen table and slide in that sausage, set up your camera in the laundry room and sit your girl on the washing machine, orgasming together during the spin cycle. Have you ever tried doing it outdoors? There’s always the backyard and the outdoor furniture to be exploited. Don’t worry if it is your first time acting in an erotic feature film, you can start it in the bedroom until you feel more adventurous, it’s all up to you.
The best part about making a pornographic home video with your partner is not just the fun of making it, but that you get to watch yourselves from a voyeuristic point of view. Haven’t you ever wondered what you both look like from someone else’s perspective, well now you can if you decide to make your own sex tape. You can use it as a guide for the future, see what worked well and what didn’t. No doubt you might laugh a little bit together through any cringey moments and gain tips and ideas for your next sweaty, hormone fueled encounter.
Talk dirty to each other, play naughty games, act out fetishes and role play scenarios you’ve never dreamt of being able to do before, just put it on film... Don’t forget that you’re probably going to be just as nervous as your partner, so it’s best to try to relax and communicate your thoughts and feelings to each other. Don’t be afraid to try something new that your partner might suggest, you both need to be satisfied in this situation, so let your inhibitions roam freely.
And as for that selfie video …
Don't forget that you can make a little video for your partner all by yourself. Just like those sexy selfies, a sexy video is certain to make your partner beg for it. For women, a sneaky clip of you rubbing your clit and sliding a finger into your wet pussy will be a more than welcomed message on your man’s lunch break or golf trip. Guys you can send her one too, show her how hard and throbbing your cock is as you think of coming home to fuck her senseless. Your wildest imaginations can come alive when you make your own videos. You get to choose everything yourself with full control of your surroundings. A few considerations:
Masturbation
Masturbation videos with an orgasmic ending are by far the hottest videos for men and women. Spreading your legs and letting him watch you get wet will send him into a sexual frenzy. Likewise, when a man whips out his hard cock and strokes it until cum explodes, the woman in his life is going to be dying for more.
Use toys
Just as toys are great for photos, they are even more powerful for videos. Every man wants to watch his girl fuck a dildo. He wants to see it go deep inside her as she moans in ecstasy.
Videos on the run
Short clips of masturbation or arousal in the middle of the day are an explosive turn on. Whether it’s in the office, at the grocery store, or in a public restroom, it’s a turn on.
The workout
For men, shirtless workout videos are a game changer for your girl. Watching you sweat and pant, leads to everything sexual.
Get dressed
For women, make a sexy video getting dressed. Let your man watch you bend over and slide into every piece of clothing. Slowly drape your blouse over your breasts. Then let him catch the view of your ass slipping into those tight jeans.
There really is no end to the pleasures of sexual video torture … it hurts so good, and we know you’ll want it over and over again.
Video may have killed the radio star, but it gave us the ability to become our own porn star playmates of the year, in the privacy of our own homes. Take advantage of a new era of sexual understanding and experimentation. Trust in the bedroom leads to stronger trust in all areas of relationships which is the key. Making videos together is a way to build that trust and have a stronger connection. Plus, it’s fun, daring and exciting, adding the perfect element to your sex lives. You don’t have to make 100 movies, even if it’s only ever one you make, I guarantee it won’t be a flop in your box office.