Sex Mirrors - A New Reflection
If the thought of using mirrors in the bedroom scares you – you're not alone! But I can tell you from personal experience, that mirrors are an exciting enhancement to your sex life, giving you a new appreciation to your reflection. It is by far one of my favorite tricks to use. There is something exhilarating about watching the act of kissing, oral sex and sex. It becomes edgier and hotter. This technique allows you to get to know each other's bodies more, while opening your minds to new experiences. It's also a great way to see the passion between your bodies as you lust after each other.
Getting Comfortable with Mirrors
Getting comfortable with yourself is the first step. You may get awkward in front of a mirror, trying to conceal parts of your body that you believe aren’t in shape or are unflattering. But this is the moment to own it. Own your body. Your partner will feel your confidence and confidence is ALWAYS a turn-on. So, just cut the insecurities and remember that you’re here to have mind-blowing sex. Focus on that.
Try masturbating the first time you use a mirror. Do it alone and make it hot. There’s no reason masturbation can’t be one of the sexiest things you’ve ever done, especially using a mirror. As a female, wear a tiny thong, leave your breasts exposed so you have access to touching yourself everywhere. If you have a full mirror, use it. Spread your legs open in front of the mirror and touch yourself … everywhere. Remember, in this moment, this is your porn. You can create anything you want. You can get so comfortable that if your man was there next to you, he would be drooling, dying to touch you.
As a male, do the same thing. Take your shirt off, imagine your woman in front of you on her knees, about to suck your hard dick. Look at the mirror as you use your hand to stroke yourself over and over. Think of her mouth salivating, as she watches you.
As both of you spend time apart, enjoying yourselves and the attention of the mirror, open your minds to experiencing this together. The more you focus on the intensity of the mirror, the more you will forget about insecurities and revel in the orgasms.
Using Mirrors as a Couple
Using mirrors as a couple is a powerful way to connect in the bedroom. It is a new perspective of using each other’s bodies for pleasure and play. It’s as simple as watching your partner kiss your entire body, and as gratifying as watching your partner quiver during an orgasm.
Remember that this experience often comes in stages, as you feel comfortable with each other. I always think of mirrors as a never-ending exposure to the body that can educate you about new erogenous zones and unique opportunities for orgasms and sexual excitement.
Take your first experience together seriously, because a bad turn can lead to the endgame, quickly. Let me help you set the scene ….
Full mirror view: The man is fully clothed, the woman is in a g-string and a tight crop top. He swiftly takes his shirt off, walks to her and pulls her hair slightly, letting her know that he’s in control. He walks around her body, as his eyes discover every inch in the reflection of the mirror. He grabs her ass, then lightly smacks it. Her breathing increases as he gently bites on her nipple. Then he slowly kneels as he pulls her panties to the side and starts to lick her clit. She’s watching it all in the mirror. She can see and feel every centimeter he licks. She is overwhelmed by the touch. Then he stops suddenly and stands up. But she can’t stop there … she wants more. She starts to unbutton his pants. Then she reaches down to grab his thick cock. She lets spit fall from her mouth onto his dick, as she strokes it harder and harder. He is staring into the mirror, his heart beating faster. Then she drops on all fours, bent over in front of the mirror, completely exposed, except for that tiny piece of floss between her ass cheeks. He stands next to her, dick hard, watching the reflection of her ass as she crawls around him ...
This is just the beginning. Mirrors provide increased intensity, that if used correctly, can amplify your connection and sexual pleasure.
5 Ways to Use Mirrors in the Bedroom
Get creative with the mirror placement. Mirrors can be hung from your walls or ceilings. If you want a specific angle, or a view at a specific position, you can prop up smaller mirrors on your dresser or a table. Another type of mirror that can be used is a vanity. A few years ago, I had received a vanity bedroom set as a wedding gift. That is one of the ways I began exploring my body. I found I could sit in front of it on my bed as I touched myself. I could see every inch of my body. And one time, my husband caught me. He was so turned on, he immediately unzipped his pants and started touching himself. It led to two hours of hot sex, me on top, directly positioned in front of the vanity mirror. He couldn't take his eyes off the mirror, as my ass bounced on his dick.
Use a full-length mirror for a standing make out session. We stood in front of the mirror. We were kissing. He turned me so my back was facing the mirror. I was in a short dress. I could feel him touch my ass, running his hands all the way down my back to my thighs. Then he slipped his hand under my skirt as he grabbed my ass tightly, staring into the mirror as he did it. He would pull my hair, and firmly grip my neck as he kissed me everywhere. This is without a doubt the hottest make out session you’ll ever have.
Enjoy the bathroom mirror and vanity counter in a whole new way. We have a large mirror above the sink in our bathroom. I had just gotten out of the shower. My husband dropped the towel down to my ankles. We stood facing the mirror with him behind me. He pushed my head to the side as he kissed my neck. He slowly slid his hands over my breasts, softly touching my nipples, then squeezing them harder. His right hand reached to the front to play with my clit. I stood in ecstasy as he made me cum over and over. Then he grabbed me, lifted me onto the vanity counter in the bathroom, spread my legs and started fucking me. It didn’t stop there. After he came, he started licking my pussy, as I scratched his back, screaming in pleasure.
A handheld mirror can provide some intense erotic fun. This type of mirror is easy to use. I heavily encourage this mirror for doggy-style. It allows you to hold it in different ways to enjoy various viewpoints that you can’t see with a large-scale mirror. It also allows you and your partner to create and imagine the angles you might want if you were making your own porn movie. Note – this mirror provides close-ups, so use this once you’ve gotten comfortable with larger mirrors.
Never underestimate the compact mirror. Small mirrors should not be overlooked as they have their uses as well. They are portable and come with their own stands. And if you're ready to try something new, consider using a compact mirror in a public place. For instance, I recently snuck into a public bathroom for a quickie with my husband. I wanted to enjoy every part of him, so as he was holding me and thrusting his hard dick in me up against the wall, I used my compact mirror to watch his dick slide in and out of me. Just by holding it below, I was able to have a new sexual high (in a very tight space).
Take Sex Pictures Using Your Reflection
When you’re ready, start using mirrors to take bold sex pictures. I’m sure you’ve taken selfies and set dirty pics using your reflection. But what about sex pics? Taking pictures in a mirror while you’re having sex or playtime is a guaranteed way to turn up the heat. Sex pictures remind you how intimate your relationship is and how fu**ing hot it can be. So, when you’re playing with mirrors, don’t miss the photo opp.
Communication after Using Mirrors
As with any new sexual experience, communication is essential. Mirror play is sexy, fun and very liberating. But it only works if both of you are in the game. Remember our tips, start separately and start slow. Then bring it together to provide each other with an incredible new vision and level of excitement. Talk about it afterwards. The more you talk, the better it gets. I know plenty of couples who never talk about these things and have a boring sex life because of it. Break the barriers and listen to each other.