Do your clothes say SEX?
It has been proven that what we wear has a significant impact on our moods, feelings, and the wellbeing of our relationships. This means that when a female puts on sweats and a tank top, the mood of relaxation is instantly felt. And conversely, when that same female puts on high heels and a tight body suit with jewelry, her man is going to be very confident that sex is in the near future.
When you think about your clothing choices, whether it’s for work, dinner or sex, it all matters. It’s the difference between a peck on the cheek and oral sex on the couch. But here is where accountability plays a role. You can’t simply put in on that never-ending to-do list and assume you’ll get there. If you want the sex life and the connection, it better stay in your top three every day. And after you’ve become accountable for meeting your partner’s visual needs, be honest with yourself as to whether you really are.
So, let me ask you … Do you like what you see in the mirror? If you don’t, I guarantee your partner won’t either.
The following types of visual aesthetics can play into a sexual relationship.
Lingerie
This the staple of sexual clothing. Lingerie is made of materials that are designed to feel good against the female body and leave every man reeling in sexual empowerment.
Lingerie offers bold prints, lace, sheen, or cut outs that are certain to make any man beg for more. These can accentuate certain areas of your body, allowing both partners to express sexual interest and expose specific areas of interest, such as breasts, ass or vagina.
Lingerie is very versatile for women. It can be worn under day clothes, in the evening to bed, or anytime around the house for sexual pleasure and tease. Additionally, lingerie offers the possibility of being worn as a shirt itself, under a jacket, or under a transparent shirt. This means that women can utilize lingerie as the ultimate tease … any time of any day, and under any circumstance.
Night Wear
This is a broad range of styles for women that includes everything from slutty tight dresses to cleavage baring shirts, leather pants and backless gowns. Whatever it is, if you’re comfortable wearing it out – do it. Anything a female is comfortable with; her man will be too. The bigger the risk, the more of a turn-on.
Every man likes to be with the woman that all other men are gawking at … dying to fuck. As always at OTN, there are no boundaries here.
Sexy In-House Wear
In house wear is best described as things you wear around the house. For females, it’s all about fit and fabrics ... Silk, satin, lycra, are all materials that feel sexy. But don’t forget spandex, leather, and polyesters that hug the skin and invite attention.
We encourage you to get flirtier with your wear, utilizing boy shorts and a bra, or mix it up with a lace chemise, or a satin teddy nightie. Don't feel like you always need to bare it all. Sometimes leaving things to the imagination can be more fun. This means, turn your boring Tuesday night into a hot zone … females should be walking around the house in a sexy thong and half shirt. Men should be hiding their hard-ons under a tight pair of underwear, so it can constantly draw attention.
Tights
These are essential for different reasons. Tights instantly turn-on men AND create desired curves and tightening for women. There are endless options for sexy tights, and they can be paired with anything or nothing at all. Plus, there’s insatiable fun that comes with ripping off those tights a little later in the evening (or day – that’s right, anytime is a good time to fuck).
Hoods
This is perhaps the more daring of clothing types to be worn in the bedroom. Hoods are typically used in BDSM and similar situations. These are very intriguing. They add a flair of drama and mystery to the bedroom. When you wear hoods during sex it makes the activities seem riskier or forbidden. And in fact, hoods have the opposite effect of typical aesthetics – hoods take away your ability to see and know what’s happening next. It’s a very tempting and tantalizing form of sexual pleasure.
Masks
This is a wide and varied category. You have the traditional masks, like you see in. movies, or at masquerade balls. You can also buy satin blindfolds at any store. This is an easy area to push boundaries. It's a little dangerous and thrilling to have hot sex with someone in a mask. Regardless of the mask type, this category presents a chance for you and your partner to get truly creative and figure out what increases your orgasmic pleasure.
Accessories
This category is very large. It ranges from shoes and jewelry to body chains, fake tattoos, and body jewels. Accessories are often over-looked, but they shouldn’t be. These extra details can amp up sex appeal to a whole new level. There is no single approach, just get in the zone and find accessories that will either make your partner go crazy just by looking at you, or add options to your sexual encounters, such as small props.
Men's Wear
We’ve noticed that dressing “hot” often falls on females. But at OTN, we believe men play a distinctive role in this, as well. Women want eye candy too, so please don’t let them down.
Men can wear various types of tight underwear to increase sexual attraction from their wives or utilize different fabrics to create sensual touches. Women want to see hard cocks and sexy chest muscles. There are a variety of shirts to explore with tight pants, and let’s never forget just how hot it is when a man pulls his dick through the zipper of his pants for a quick fuck as he leaves for the day.
Double your connection with your appearance
Using clothing to amp up your sex life can be a very freeing and fun experience. Things in the bedroom will be more interesting and entertaining. Clothing tells your partner what you want and the effort you’re willing to put in to achieve your sexual desires.
Your appearance changes feelings in yourself and your spouse. When you like the way you look, you tend to feel great about yourself and much more sexually open. This can lead to feelings of confidence … resulting in some wicked bedroom behavior. As the attraction heightens, the sexual tension builds, creating a powerful connection and release, with every orgasm.
Clothing offers an escape. This escapism is how we break free from reality through sexual entertainment and interest.