How To Accessorize Your Sex Life
Every day we accessorize our look. Whether it’s bracelets or rings, necklaces or shoes, we are a society of looking good. But how about your sex life? How can you use accessories to rev up your sexual engines? Whether you’re a man or woman, there are endless options to use for props and accessories, and you’ll be shocked to know just how much they can do.
That’s where this article and your imaginations come into play. It’s time to open your eyes to the treasure trove of cum worthy accessories aimed at spicing up your sex lives forever.
Put an End to Vanilla Skies Even the tamest sex lives can be vamped up with the help of a few sexy accessories. First, let’s begin with some basics (that surprisingly, very few of you use).
Wigs are a simple yet wonderful accessory to use in the bedroom and I suggest building a collection over time, in as many colors as possible. Hidden desires to fuck a redhead, blonde, or a brown-haired person, don’t have to be a fleeting thought in the back of your minds. It’s the most harmless fun you can have in the bedroom, slipping on a wig instantly transforms you from being someone your partner sees every day, to a sexy stranger in bed at night.
Don’t be shy, think about adding in some handcuffs in the color matching with your bra and panties. There are soft and hard handcuffs. Whatever your desire, select what’s best for your relationship. We won’t judge if you prefer a little BDSM pain.
Blindfolds are another popular choice to be used on both of you during foreplay and intercourse, heightening all other senses and intensifying your climax. Being blindfolded and teased slowly, touched when you can’t see, produces electrifying sensations across your body in tantalizing waves. No more vanilla sky for you two, it only gets better from here…
If you’re looking to get even more intense, check out his and her hoods. You can wear them together or just one of you. For females, many hoods offer a hole for your mouth and a hole for your high ponytail, perfect for him to pull as you deep throat his dick. Or let him give it a tug while you’re enjoying doggy style.
When you’re ready for some majestic sex fun, we suggest using partial face masks. This allows you to explore elusive qualities while still having access to your mouth, which is a crucial part of mind-blowing sex. Masks are also great for roleplay and allowing yourself to escape reality into a fantasy sex world. It’s a perfect complement to any sex story you’ve been anxious to explore.
For women, tights and leg warmers are an enticing accessory for your sex vibe. We’re not talking about your grandma’s pantyhose, we’re talking about slutty, sexy, erotic tights; with holes in all the right places, and gems to accentuate your curves. Layer on a pair of leg warmers peeking out of your low boots, and your man is guaranteed to think about nothing but sexing you.
Accessories for men are just as important. Think about things like hats, pocket squares, and a sexy tie that you can use on your girl later at night. Women love anything that comes from our men, so don’t be stingy. Share, restrain … enjoy together.
Remember that sex accessories should always be part of the experience. Don’t just jump in bed and stick it in. Enjoy the lead up, the twists, and the mind games.
Next Level Play
How about we step it up and add a little erotica for every now and then. It’s fantasy time so unleash your inner desires with the help of a few items, (or a few hundred) the choices are limitless. When you think about your favorite scenario what does it entail? First things first, pick a costume to go with your roleplay ideas, of which there are thousands to choose from. The most popular costumes on major online sites allow you to release your inner slut and arouse your partner like never before.
Maybe you guys want to include a bit of rough play and like the idea of restraining each other. Don’t we all… Costumes for bondage play including leather wrist restraints chained to the bodice, whips, paddles, vinyl zip up body suits and ball gags. Think about pleasure versus pain and include feathers and vibrators to switch to after a good spanking. Your skin will prickle in delicious satisfaction at the alternate sensations, pain then pleasure combined with teasing and withholding builds up an orgasm to unimaginable heights, so be creative in your sensual torture.
For other fantasies to come alive look at the range of costumes to get you both in character for your chosen fantasy for the night. The most popular list of costumes includes sexy corsets of all styles and fabrics, Naughty Nurses, Cheerleaders, School Uniforms, Police Uniforms, French Maids, Playboy Bunnies, Lawyer, Sailor and of course the Hot Handyman. Go wild and start a collection to swap up on any night you desire, the bigger the range the more options to make each other cum again and again.
You Can’t Ignore the Hardcore For the most daring of us, the devilish delights of the sex toy industry will have your cocks thumping against your leg and her pussy dripping in throbbing want. Let’s enter the world of hardcore sex. This is where the previously mentioned fantasies are brought to new heights of danger and delight. Roleplay can be pushed to its limits with planning out your ideal scenarios with each other. Some of us want to replicate scenes that push boundaries but in the safety of your lover’s arms, there’s nothing to fear except multiple orgasms and the best sex of your lives.
This is a great place to add in the beforementioned masks and hoods for the punishers.
Don’t forget other options like balaclavas and full body harness suits.
Venture into sex swings and soft rope restraints.
Then move into mild torture devices like nipple clamps, ball gags and leather collars with attachable chains.
Enjoy anal pleasures with butt plug animal tails that increase the visual attraction.
Dom and sub play brings out the sexual beast in some of us so accessorize accordingly. Don’t ignore those desires and let them bottle up untouched, release them to each other and fulfil all your secret desires. Here are some other roleplay scenarios where costumes and accessories come to full use.
Perhaps an intruder surprises you in the bedroom after your shower wearing a mask and a hot prison jumpsuit, taking you as his prize instead of the gold, pillaging your holes after tying you up to the bed frame with chains and cuffs. Maybe you get into an argument with the plumber or electrician over your bill and he takes the debt out on your pussy in the kitchen. Have your police outfit on and watch your partner try to suck and fuck their way out of a speeding ticket. Or maybe your grades are slipping at school? Bribing the teacher with your sweet asshole to punish and fuck might bring those grades right back up.
Consensual roleplay sex can be hotter than anything else you’ve tried, so I strongly suggest giving it a go.
Happy Sex Life, Happy Home The key to a successful sexual relationship always begins with communication and trust. Talk honestly to one another about what secret desires you both have, and the ways you can satisfy them. Fetishes are normal and everyone has them, so don’t be shy with your partner about the things you’d like to try in the bedroom, no matter how risqué and “naughty” you think they are. Those raunchy outfits, costumes and accessories didn’t make top 10 on the list of sex ideas for no reason. We pick a partner in life to be able to do these things with. Instead of couples being unsatisfied and only dreaming of the wicked explicit scenarios, it’s time to act them out.
When tame becomes too mediocre regarding your sexual appetites, step it up to the next level with toys, costumes and accessories and have that imaginative, hot sex life you’ve always wanted. Remember dirty is good, naughty is wild, and once you’ve unlocked this doorway of communication with each other you will never turn back. Start a collection and store your pieces in a drawer, box or a suitcase dedicated to pure pleasure. As time goes on, add more items and explore more fantasies, letting your inhibitions run free with your partner. You’ll never go back to the ‘starfish 2 minutes’ ever again, as your sex lives from now on can and will be mind-blowing. Dominate your world of intense pleasure, pain, and mystique by adding in some X-rated, red-hot accessories. Your imagination is your only limit, so let it run wild. After all, you only live once.