What Men Can Do to Keep the Interest of Their Wives
A lot of emphasis and pressure is put on females in relationships to be attractive and appealing to their partners. Most beauty products, procedures, diets and clothing ranges advertised on television and social media are aimed directly at women. The self-improvement advertisements should have men as their target audience as well as women, after all it is a partnership, right?
Well, we’re here to address exactly that. Guys, it’s easy to slip into bad patterns and old habits once you have settled down with the love of your life. Once that ring is on her finger a lot of men fall into the mindset that they no longer have to make any effort. She already fell for your mating ritual of charm and desire, so surely now the work is done. Fuck no, that shit is old fashioned and incredibly last season thinking. Keeping your woman happy doesn’t just require once a month mowing the lawns, it takes care, effort and a little thought.
What the hell are you wearing?
Too many guys in relationships let their looks slip towards the downward tunnels of ugly, without a second thought. Ripped shorts, tracksuit pants covered in moth holes, faded tank tops and underwear with no elastic must go in the bin, like now. What you wear represents who you are in so many ways, so show your woman you have some style and watch her swoon over you. Throw on a suit and tie for date night; the sparkle in her eyes will match the stars.
It’s not just about your outfit choices either. Tidy up your hair a little and your face by going to a barber. Get a more modern cut and shave a few years off your look. You don’t have to do anything drastic like a mohawk or perm, just tidy up with a trim and the magic is done. Take pride in your appearance, your partner will be flattered that you still want to look good in the relationship.
Remember that we want to fuck just as much as you do, but like you, we also prefer something great to look at.
A Table for Two?
Although it is the year 2022 (as we write this article) there are still a lot of relationships that hold onto stereotypical views of women and their roles in the household. Outdated notions that they should be in the kitchen or the laundry room, keeping the house immaculate whilst taking care of the children, still dominate many relationships. It’s not sexy and it needs to end. If you want your girl to care for you, and find you irresistibly desirable, then you need to care for her as well.
Cooking dinner for your lady a few times a week is a winning tip to keep the relationship healthy and happy. We all love a good meal and it’s even better when someone cooks it for us, so why not have a shot at recreating her favourite dish. Even if it tastes a little funky, she won’t notice because you made it for her with love and passion. Women admire effort and thoughtfulness, the meal you create doesn’t have to be chef quality, it just has to be on her plate. Add some candles and flowers to the table for ambience, play some sexy mood music and open a chilled bottle of wine. Be creative and you can give her a date night to remember in your very own home. But it doesn’t end at the meal, oh no. After the dinner is done comes the sexiest thing you can do for your girl. The secret key to every woman’s heart, wash the dishes…
If you can’t cook at all and are a walking fire risk in the kitchen, then perhaps book into her favourite restaurant instead. There’s nothing wrong with whisking her away on a romantic evening of dinner and dancing, dinner and a movie or dinner and wild sex on the beach. Your interest in her happiness is what will stand out the most, but you’re still going to do the dishes occasionally…
Make Yourself Needed
We’ve all watched scenes in movies where the housewife lusts over the sweaty handyman, as he skilfully fixes that 3-month-old problem the husband kept putting off. Guys, you need to be the handyman of the house for your partner. Doing nothing around the house will bring you slight resentment and a young, muscular handyman bending over in front of your wife. Instead you can be the handyman of her dreams and do those jobs you said you would.
We are all animals at heart and a man who takes care of his woman, and their home, will be rewarded with love and affection beyond his dreams. Effort is directly linked to a woman’s libido so the more effort you give around the home, the more secure that home becomes and the more sexually intoxicating you will be.
What A Girl Wants
Making your wife happy in your relationship isn’t as hard as some people expect. It’s all about getting to know the real her behind the front she wears for the world. What are her favourite colours and her favourite band when she was young? Ask her questions about her life story, be engaged in what she has to say. Listening to her means more than a bunch of flowers and will be appreciated more than you can imagine. Sure you may be in love with her sexy body and the way she cooks your mac n cheese at midnight, but there are so many other things you don’t know that created the beautiful soul you chose to be with. When she was young what games did she play? Was her favourite one Mouse Trap or Monopoly? Scrabble or soccer? Find out. Board games sound tiring sometimes.
Let her be herself with you, don’t point out small flaws and little mistakes she might make, or you’ll turn her off in an instant. Humiliation might be funny for you, but most girls don’t see it or take it very well, some bottling it up for years as it shaves down their self-esteem layer by layer. No one is perfect and that is why you both need to be honest with each other about everything. High on the list of raising and maintaining your sex appeal is to be faithful, loyal, caring and little bit daring.