New Ways to Use Lingerie Every Week
Lingerie is the French word for a woman’s underwear and sleepwear that the whole English-speaking world adopted, just because it’s so damn sexy. From bloomers and corsets to G-strings and push-up bras, lingerie is one of the most diverse and sexual pieces of clothing in history. There is such a large market for men’s and women’s underwear that even A-list celebrities jumped on the bandwagon. From Rihanna and her extra hot ‘Savage X Fenty’ line, Giselle Bundchen and her aptly named ‘Gisele Bundchen Intimates’, to Kim Kardashian launching her questionable ‘SKIMS’ range, the stars have been catapulting their names into the lingerie design industry for years.
The most popular lingerie line that launched the careers (and love lives) of hundreds of top models is Victoria Secret. Even with stiff competition surrounding them and with the effects of the pandemic, Victoria’s Secret still managed to pull in a whopping 67-billion-dollar profit in 2020. I think it’s safe to say, they know their undergarments…
With so many options to choose from how do you know which lingerie is suitable for which occasion? You should already know that visible panty lines through dresses aren’t sexy, a sheer G-string, seamless panties or going bare are the keys to a smooth sexy shape line in any form fitting dress. Oh, and if you want to rock a G-string then don’t have it hanging out the top of your pants, that’s a look from the 90’s that I never want to see make a comeback.
But you are looking for the spark, the excitement that comes with knowing you have something naughty underneath. And let’s face it, when you’ve been in a relationship for a while, it’s easy to forget just how important lingerie is to your look. Not to mention it keeps sex on the brain (yours and his) all through the day and night.
So, what lingerie should you wear and why? Let's discover a few of the best opportunities to include sexy lingerie in your look. You're going for maximum impact, so please get out of your comfort zone and sex it up for your man.
Daring Date Night Options
Date night is the most anticipated night of the week for most couples, but even this can get dull after a while. That’s where we add a little lace, a splash of silk and a whole lot of surprise sexiness to fire up the burners of love and make your man undress you with his eyes throughout the entire evening. We have a few top picks for date night.
Plan for your next date night (even if you’re both stuck at home) by picking out the perfect lingerie set. It doesn’t matter where you’re going and which outfit you’ve chosen for the date, a hot set of raunchy lingerie underneath will make for a much more pleasurable experience. Try picking a style your partner hasn’t seen on you before. Any outfit can be amped up with a sexy little bra and panty set hiding underneath. Think push up bras, lace G-strings, sheer pantihose and garter belts for this one (you can’t go wrong with suspenders and garter belts, trust me). Select a bold color that you’ve deemed too risqué in the past. Red lingerie springs to mind anytime I think hot date, it’s like waving a flag in front of a horny bull, he’ll be charging towards it every time…
For a little surprise, utilize a lingerie bodysuit. In fact, wear this as the shirt with your tight skinny jeans or sexy skirt. If your nipples are covered, you can wear it out. Then accessorize it. Think about a jacket over your shoulders or maybe a long chain that perfectly drapes between your breasts, drawing his attention all night long. Lingerie body suits should always utilize a thong, not full coverage of your ass. The point is that the bodysuit acts as instant lingerie and provides easy access for fucking. No need to change, just enjoy the ride.
One of our best tips for a daring date night is no panties. Wear the tightest dress you can find, but then skip the panties and the G-string option. Don’t wear anything and let him discover on his own. If he hasn’t noticed throughout the evening, be sure to slide his hand over your ass and hips so he can feel your flawless skin. Then he’ll probably whisper into your ear, “Are you wearing panties?” Don’t confirm. Just smile and kiss him. After all, a lady never tells.
For an extra tease show your man any new lingerie purchase before you have it on or send him a pre-dessert selfie during your date. Watch his eyes widen and the bulge in his pants grow, as the image of you in a trim-lace-garter set heats up his screen. He may want to skip dessert but that’s not going to happen. Every second he waits is another moment his cock grows, remember that…
Special Occasions
Special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries call for special lingerie. On these rare evenings your choice of lingerie should be suited to your partner’s taste. Pick a set in his favorite color and style. There are many options to consider:
Go with the theme of the evening. If the vibe is classic and sexy, select something that he would like in the line of lingerie. Think about lace teddies with a cut-out for vaginal and anal pleasure.
Maybe the evening is more playful and fun. Consider something like a corset with tights or thigh-highs. Plus, just think about all the extra attention you’ll receive as he slowsly removes your tight corset.
Perhaps the evening calls for something more scandalous and provocative. In that case, consider leather and a choker. Men love seeing women in chokers, and leather … well, that speaks for itself.
Or maybe you’re looking to tease all night long. For this, we recommend a beaded G-string and see-through bra. This combination will have his mind spinning, just thinking of all the possibilities.
If you’re in a long-term relationship and you don’t know what your man loves, you have some serious work to do. This is surely something that you should know by now. However, if you’re stuck, or maybe just need some new ideas, we recommend that both of you browse through online images of lingerie. Take a mental note of those he loves and those he skims past quickly. Choose the option with the highest potential impact. After the party celebrations have died down and the guests have departed, let him know you have one more surprise for him, a hot, wet present he has yet to unwrap. Slip into your chosen bombshell lingerie (or simply expose it, depending on your situation) and show him what a good boy he’s been, finishing off his birthday with a bang! Nothing says “Happy Birthday Baby” more than a blowjob while you’re dressed in a velvet corset with matching crotchless panties…
Roleplay Lingerie Kink
Let’s face it, roleplay and themed play has become more and more popular and accepted as a healthy way for a couple to express their deepest and even darkest desires. Your lingerie should match these desires in the naughtiest and most explicit way it can.
If you guys are into a little rough play or BDSM, the outfits are simply endless and more erotic than your imagination can dream up. Look up BDSM outfits and a world of leather, chains, handcuffs and creative play opens its doors for you. Some of the top picks on websites like Wild Secrets are the Flirtatious French Maid outfit, Naughty Nurse outfit, white leather harness bra, Schoolgirl micro skirts and costumes, satin collars with O-ring and the range of satin and leather body harnesses. The list is endless, the prices are affordable and with constant deals and new stock arriving daily, yours and your partner’s sexual satisfaction is guaranteed on delivery.
Some other websites I encourage you to check out with your partner are:
Love Honey
You can get all your sexual needs from the one site, their stock ranges from lingerie to sex toys and all that’s in between.
Savage X Fenty
Rihanna is killing it with this one, you will find a wider range of sizes than most of her competitors while keeping the designs sexy as hell.
Yandy
Another top site for affordable lingerie, costumes and outfits. Their range is huge, and they offer free shipping on most items.
It’s easy to find an online retailer that suits your style and your fetishes in the bedroom, you just have to look and start ordering. Having the pieces delivered straight to your door provides the discretion you want (and may need), especially if your plan is to surprise your partner with the hottest and wildest lingerie, he’s ever laid his hands and dick on.
Use Special Care or Don’t
Taking care of your sexy intimates is imperative. Leather and chains don’t do well in the washing machine or tumble dryer, so check out the cleaning instructions on each piece you buy. For those ultra-delicate pieces, you’d rather not see wrapped around the other clothes like a noose, I recommend hand washing in cold to warm water. Gently wipe off or wring out the excess water and hang them up to dry on a rack or hanger, this is to assist in keeping your erotic underwear in its original and desired shape.
If you must put your erotic wear into the washing machine, we suggest getting a lingerie wash bag. These bags are designed to protect the fabric and shape of your most intimate and loved pieces, keeping them safe inside a cushioned pouch, while the machine twists and churns the other clothes with force. Unless you want to pull out your bra and have the entire washing load twisted up in the strap somehow, we suggest investing in a very affordable washing bag. Crisis averted…
Also, remember that some lingerie is just cheap fun. Pay $18 and get something hot as hell; let him rip it off you and fuck you senseless. Then just throw it away. You certainly got your $18 worth of pleasure (at least we hope so)! This approach also allows you to buy more, more often. You can play with various styles and always have something new when you buy cheap. It’s a great strategy when you’re just starting to figure out what you like or if you want to explore something totally different. So, use special care or don’t. Just buy some lingerie and enjoy the fuck.
Ooh La Lingerie
The most important aspect of lingerie is that you want to feel sexy from head to toe, skin deep, and that can be acquired by wearing sexy lingerie in sensual fabrics and tantalizing styles. The right lingerie will change your whole perspective on your own sex appeal and awaken the goddess within you. The only thing as hot as your soft naked body, is when it’s dressed up.
Forget boring when it comes to buying your next lingerie set, you’re here for a good time not a long time and that hot body deserves to be adorned in leather, lace and silk.