3 Creative Ways to Use Porn in Your Relationship
We know the typical use case for porn … you’re horny, so you play it in the background. Maybe you masturbate to it, maybe you don’t. Perhaps you just stare in amazement.
We appreciate your openness to porn in general, but there are some more creative applications for your relationship. Once you’re both comfortable utilizing porn, you can take advantage of numerous scenarios that do much more than heat up the screen. These scenarios focus more on heating up those parts between your legs.
Let's get to it ...
Scenario 1 – Hidden Porn Play
In this scenario, the goal is to have one of you enjoy porn privately, as the other entices your body with various touches, while not knowing what is being watched. It becomes somewhat of a pleasurable torture for both people, as one wonders the next move their partner is going to make and the other wonders what type of porn is being enjoyed. It’s your own mind fuck, of which you’re willingly engaged. Enjoy!
Here’s how to enact Hidden Porn Play:
Select the roles. One of you is the Player and one is the Pursuer. For the sake of this scenario, she will be the player watching porn, and he will be the pursuer.
Use your tablet or mobile phone and have your girl visit any porn site of choice. This should not be visible to you. She gets full porn privacy. It is best to do this while she’s sitting at a table in a skirt or dress. Headphones are strongly recommended. This helps her escape to a completely different dimension of sexual fun and fantasy without distraction.
Let her watch the porn for 5-15 minutes to get into the story and a sexual headspace. While she’s doing this, position yourself under the table. Just as you shouldn’t see the porn she’s watching, she shouldn’t see what you’re doing (or about to do).
Now, slowly pull down her panties and begin to massage her clitoris. If she's as relaxed as possible and has chosen the right video, she should be wet in a few short minutes. Begin to stimulate her with your fingers as she sinks deeper and deeper into the sensation. Once you think she's halfway into her climax, put your finger inside her and lean in to suck her clitoris.
But don’t let her cum just yet. You want to tease her and make her moan for more. You can also use your hands to tightly grab her thighs and pull her clit to your mouth. It’s all about riding the edge and making her orgasms even more explosive. Use the element of surprise.
As a word of advice gentlemen … Don't get lazy or distracted while going down on her. She needs your full attention. Also, don't feel tempted to visit her upper body and ruin her private experience. Instead, focus your energy on pleasing her down there until she cums multiple times. Yes, we said ‘multiple.’ This isn’t a one and done playbook.
Don’t forget –
There's some education here, as well. Often, men are distracted by the larger sexual experience and don’t know or follow the queues of the female body. This is a powerful way to learn her thrusts, her sounds and her trigger points. We suggest you use the time wisely.
Then it’s time to switch roles. Now you get to be the player watching porn. Pick whatever you like and let her suck you dry. It works both ways ...
Scenario 2 - Porn Every Day, Makes for a Damn Good Lay
In the beginning of any great relationship (even if it’s only great for a little), there’s a high likelihood that you exchanged multiple dirty pics with your partner. We’re certain you had some hot selfies, scantily clad bed shots, or even a few naughty nudes. That’s a great way to keep lust alive in your relationship, but after 10+ years, those selfies aren’t as provocative anymore. That’s ok though, we’re always ready to amplify the sex factor.
And for this very thing, we welcome short clip porn videos.
Oh yes, the videos you’ve watched a hundred times because they’re quick and dirty (pun intended). They’re just what you need for a quick fix, or a mid-day rub out in the bathroom. There's just one thing … couples don’t share these moments with each other.
Well, we actually encourage this behavior, but we encourage it together. Sharing short clips of porn, is a great way to step up from the everyday selfie and let each other know exactly what you want and how you want it.
A few tips are provided below:
Share videos you haven’t previously viewed together. There’s a world of porn out there, use it.
Share videos regarding new positions, cosplay or a different experience.
Keep the videos short. They are intended to entice and intrigue, not give an entire play by play.
Share videos at odd times. Don’t send porn when you’re already in the mood and it’s not an enhancement. Timing is everything, so be playful and unexpected.
If you use a short clip of porn to masturbate mid-day, ALWAYS share that with your partner.
Include your thoughts or personal message with the porn clip. It can be anything from, “I want this later,” to, “Are you up for this position?” or even, “I want to sit on your face just like this.” Whatever the message, keep it hot and relevant.
Scenario 3 – Porn Games
Not into reindeer games? Great! We recommend porn games instead.
There are various games you can play using porn videos. One of our most favorite is Porn Truth or Dare. This game encompasses a series of engagements that a person is often unwilling to say or do naturally. In this version, you and your partner must take Truth and Dare acts from the scenes of your most loved porn movies.
It works like this:
Select 3-5 porn movies. Each of you can pick a couple that you’d like to use.
Select the reward for the winner and/or the punishment for the loser.
Play the movies one at a time.
During each movie, you play a round.
Every dare must be an act that is performed in the video.
Every truth must be about something that is performed in the video. This keeps all the questions sexually related; and the answers help fuel the dares.
The partner who completes the most Dares and Truths wins the game.
To make this game more interesting, we recommend using risqué porn scenes. Perhaps something you've never even seen before. You want there to be an element of surprise and a little risk associated with each dare. The goal is to learn more about each other and push boundaries. It is porn after all .. all it does is push boundaries. So, join the fun!
You probably wouldn’t have guessed, but porn offers more than just a sit down, stare and drool activity. It has a wealth of horny applications, guaranteed to get you in the mood and inject some excitement into your dull routine. Almost all your activities can be made sexual with a porn involved. And what’s the harm in that?