Public Playtime Just Started

No matter how good you are together, there will come a time in most couple’s lives when doing it just isn’t doing it anymore; when ‘Netflix and chilling’ is a massive chore, and headaches seem to be mysteriously on the up, which is more than can be said for the penis. 

The thing is, there are only so many variations on a theme, and at some point, you will have exhausted all the options, as opposed to being sexually exhausted yourselves. 

“But there’s more to a relationship than sex!” Well, yes, there is, but don’t you want to keep some magic in the mundane? Life can be hard, daily routine can be wearing, so wouldn’t it be nice to know that there, in amongst all the crap that life throws at you, you still have sex to look forward to? Not a ‘pull my nightie down when you’re done’ type of sex, but a passionate, mind-blowing, all-consuming, nothing else matters sex that really does move the Earth. 

It’s not enough that you’re both getting on, you need to be getting off, too. 

So, what can you do? You’ve tried all the positions, him on top, her on top, standing up, sitting down, on the bed, on the couch, on the stairs…you’ve risked life and limb in the shower, watched erotic movies together (or apart), but still…there’s about as much fizz as year old soda. 

Hold on…back it up a bit. If you’ve watched erotica, how did it make you feel? Hot and horny is my guess, because there are very few people who wouldn’t be aroused by the sight of two people fucking. It’s naughty, it’s voyeuristic, it’s forbidden, and it’s so damn good. We’re not talking about porn here because that’s not everybody’s bag (or ball sack), but erotic, sensual, deep kissing and deeper shagging erotica. 

Put it this way, if you were about to close the curtains one night and you happened to look across and see your neighbors going at it over their kitchen table, would you immediately close the curtains and grasp at your pearl necklace (hee hee) in horror, or would you keep looking, very slyly of course? Would you close the curtains slowly, as he thrusts into her repeatedly, or would you be glued to the sight of her taking his cock in her mouth? 

Let me tell you a secret. They know - or at least hope - you’re watching, because they know how awesome it is to have sex while someone else is admiring from afar. 

 
Ladies and gents, it’s time to include other people in your sex lives. 

We’re not talking about screwing other people, because you’re in a monogamous relationship and OTN wants to keep it that way. No, we are discussing, or dick-sucking, allowing other people to watch you while you fuck each other into senseless. That can be covertly like the horny neighbors on the kitchen table, or overtly in a public forum and a crowd; you do you (and each other) in whatever way you feel comfortable. 

 
Undercover Copulation 

There are loads of ways you can fuck in public while maintaining the illusion of privacy: 

In your own home is a great way to start. You can claim innocence and tell yourselves you just got carried away while you begin kissing, undressing each other, and then fucking with the curtains open and the lights on. You’ll have no idea whether anyone’s watching, but just the mere chance that they could be is enough of a risk to really turn on both of you. 

If that’s too risqué for you to start with, you could hang sheer curtains and keep the lights on, so onlookers can see sexy silhouettes without actually seeing anything at all. 

Knobbing in nature is also hot as fuck. Take a stroll through a forest and find a secluded tree to lean against. Imagine the feeling; you’re up against the tree, skirt around your hips and legs around his waist, while he’s grinding into you. A soft breeze feels cold against your nipples while the leaves whisper…or was that someone in the bushes watching you, gasping at the sight they’ve stumbled upon? 

What about an alley way? Imagine you’ve been out for a few drinks together and you’re making your way home when you come across a dark, out-of-the-way alley. You pull her down there and then unzip. She drops to her knees and takes your cock in her mouth while you pull her hair and moan. Someone might hear you, but you don’t care, her hot mouth on your shaft is too good to stop and you throw your head back as you cum and she swallows. 

A weekend break can also provide ample opportunity for PDAs. Choose a hotel with huge windows in a built-up area, or one that has a lot of passing pedestrians, and have sex up against the glass. Go down on her, licking her out as she stands with her legs apart, then take her from behind so her full body - breasts, pussy, and all - are pressed up against the window for all to see.  Those in other buildings or passers-by will be able to see her face as you fuck, and watch as both of you cum. You’re still in the privacy of your own hotel room, which offers views that won’t find themselves in any vacation brochure. 

 
Full-on Fucking in the Public Eye 

Okay, so maybe you’re more of an exhibitionist than you thought, so you want to take the plunge – literally – in front of people, knowing they’re watching you while you screw. 

That’s where sex clubs come in.  

Somewhat tastefully decorated, a sex club is simply a club where people have sex. That can be with your own partner, someone else’s partner, someone else’s partner-s, or with nobody at all, because you can just go and watch. 

Many sex clubs have a drinking area that resembles any normal club, where people mingle and chat, and then separate areas where sex is the order of the day. Some rooms have beds, some have swings, and others might have chains – different clubs cater to different tastes, but the one thing they all have in common is that people go there to watch and be watched while they fuck. 

While many couples will swap partners or engage in threesomes or foursomes (or even more-somes), others will stick to their own partners. 

Then you fuck. You lick her out. You suck him off. You do whatever the hell you want while other people watch. Some spectators might just spectate, while others will begin to fuck too. They might masturbate themselves or each other, too. And all because they are watching you.  

What a power trip!  

 
How can it help your relationship? 

If you have found your sex life becoming stale, fucking in public will really put the fizz back into fornication, because knowing people could be – or are – watching will mean you up the ante. You will perform. Kissing will be deeper, caressing will be more sensual, and fucking will be sexier than ever before. You’re on show, and because of that you will both put more effort into it.  

You will choose outfits more carefully, dress for each other as well as others. Underwear will be sensual or slutty, depending on how you feel, and you will ensure you both look and feel your best, because you will be the center of attention and admiration. 

And because of this, that effort will continue at home. You will continue to fuck more flamboyantly because the feeling of being watched will be there, or at least the memory of it. You will remember how fucking good it felt to turn other people on by screwing in public, and you will both want to replicate that feeling again and again. 

Public play does not mean you only ever have sex in front of others again; doing it just once can be enough to re-ignite the passion in your relationship, but it will encourage you both to become more daring. 

Going to the movie theater might mean you sit at the back so you can suck him off, instead of at the front so you can see the screen. Going for a drive could make you wear a skirt instead of jeans, just in case he decides to pull over and pull your panties down. Or don’t wear panties at all, hitch your skirt up, and play with yourself as he drives you around.  Knowing the driver of the truck in his high cab can see you masturbating if he happens to look down, can be a massive turn on for both of you, and chances are you won’t reach your destination without pulling into a parking lot to finish the job. 

Having sex in public can and will open doors to the best sex you have ever had, and because it is so damn hot it can work wonders on dragging relationships. 

Tap into your inner exhibitionist and you’ll see exactly what I mean.