Using Strangers to Benefit Your Monogamous Relationship
Being in a monogamous relationship can be a rewarding and soul satisfying experience, and the individuals who choose this lifestyle are more than content to share themselves with just one partner. Much like the Bald Eagle, Seahorse and the Grey wolf to name a few, humans are amongst only a small number of species on Earth who can remain faithful for life. Monogamous relationships are built on high levels of trust in the knowledge that your significant other won’t sleep with another person, remaining loyal to the one they love forever.
In the animal kingdom though, some of those monogamous couples use flirting with others as a mating tactic with their spouse. Take for example the timid male seahorse who is the baby maker in the relationship. He will occasionally flirt with other females, making his horsey partner jealous, and sparking the cutest bitch fight you’ve ever witnessed on a nature show! This is followed by an underwater X-rated sex scene, where the original seahorse couple reignite their passion for one another in a lust fueled ocean romp.
Well, what if just like the seahorse, you and your partner could use other people to enhance your sex lives, without damaging trust and crossing boundaries? There are ways of engaging with people outside of your relationship without sleeping with them. Ways you and your partner can boost your sexual desires for each other without the bitch fight, without any cheating, and the rules are entirely up to the two of you.
A Lap Dance for the Lady?
The most obvious way of involving someone other than your partner into your sex life, is by going to a strip club. Now guys this one isn’t about you, yet you’ll benefit from it like you wouldn’t believe! Firstly, grab some drinks and let your girl look around, she is going to decide which stripper she likes and you’re going to shout her a lap dance…
Let her be in full control here, the prize for you is the tantalizing show. Think about how much of a turn on it will be watching a half-naked slutty stripper grinding on your girl, teasing her, whispering hot words into her ear. Feel the throbbing in your cock while their breasts heave together, their mouths and tongues almost touching as they tease each other like hot lovers in your new favorite girl-on-girl porno…
Ladies, even if you don’t swing that way, the arousal of the female body in close contact with yours, is an electric feeling that starts in your panties and finishes with your partner’s erect cock pounding you senseless. With no pressure or expectations of things leading further, you’re free to enjoy the sensual touch of another woman, knowing every second is driving your man completely insane. His dick will be dripping to get inside you and by the time you get home (if you make it that far without fucking on the bonnet of the car), you’ll be having animalistic porn sex in every room of the house and possibly even on the white goods.
Pubs, Clubs and the Art of Innocent Flirting
For this one to work you will need to have an open discussion prior to your night out with your partner about their limits and expectations. This is the ultimate teasing game where you’ll be flirting with other people in front of each other, an act that requires 100% trust from both parties otherwise it simply won’t work. How far you’re willing to let your partner go, must be predetermined and fully agreed upon before you leave the house. Both of you can partake in this flirty game if you wish or decide ahead of time which one of you will be the sexy ‘bait’ for the night.
Head out to a pub or club together but walk in as though you’re single and ready to mingle, it’s time to get your flirt on! Watching someone else desire your partner while knowing they belong to you, is a powerful aphrodisiac, and a powerplay that you can swap between the two of you. There’s nothing like an ego boost to get your sexual confidence up, so being hit on by a stranger is a great reminder that you’re both still hot blooded, sexy assed mother fuckers with swagger and looks to kill.
Girls imagine watching as your man flirts with another woman, throwing cheeky glances at you. The jealous fire you feel is love, the frustration you can take out on him as soon as you get home, or in a toilet cubicle at the venue. If at some point you’ve had enough of watching him be the desire of other women, simply go over and claim back what is yours, “Oh yeah bitches, he’s mine!”
Guys let’s reverse this, let your girl go sit at the bar with you not far away. It won’t take long before some random will spot her and want to make her his sex toy for the night, an honor only you’ll be getting, but he won’t know that. Watch how close he will try to get to her, the way he might touch her arm, or move the hair away from her face, see how much he wants to fuck the shit out of her right there on the bar. Trust me, you’ll be so turned on knowing that you’re the only one shoving your dick in her at the end of the night, after giving that hot ass a spanking as punishment for being a naughty little flirt.
Take turns with your promiscuous acts and enjoy the raging sex afterwards. A night of watching each other like stalkers will be wild, as you’ll get to claim back the dick and pussy that’s rightfully yours after the doors close to the club.
“Can I Buy You a Drink?”
Throw your minds back to the very start of your relationship and even further, before you were in one. Remember the first time you met, your first make-out session, the first time you fucked each other like hormone fueled teenagers. Well, you’ll be bringing all that intensity back in one very hot night out where you’ll try again, to get into their pants on the first date.
You can choose to roleplay everything, have different names, personalities, careers and even dress for the night how you wouldn’t normally. Or you can be yourselves if that’s easier, yet you have never met and are out at the bar drowning your lonely-assed sorrows. Order yourselves a drink and get settled somewhere either at a table or mingle around the room. Predetermine who’s going to pick up who in a sea of singles vying for your affection’s, and flirt with a few randoms before introducing yourself to one another for the “first” time.
The conversation might be awkward as you get to know each other all over again, or it might flow smoothly, because just like a real first date, you won’t know what to expect. Get to know one another all over again, you might find out things about your partner that you didn’t know before, things that get lost in the everyday running of your normal lives.
Of course, everything depends on how far you want this roleplay to go, maybe the first night all you will get is a sneaky kiss at the front door of your home, or a snogging and groping session as you drop her off and drive around the block thinking of how much you want to pound her ass. The best part is, you can do just that a few minutes after you pull back into your driveway!
Your imaginations are the key to success on these sexy nights out, as each time you will be choosing different scenarios, keeping the excitement alive and sparking new ideas for future sexual adventures. Add a new level of risqué fun and sexual desire to your relationship by changing boring date-night forever! Try incorporating one of these new ideas you’ve just read, or you can make up some of your own scenarios to act out.