Get the Sex You Want from Your Wife
Some couples turn to marriage counseling when things get a bit old, but can I just say that in my opinion, marriage counseling sucks balls and not in a good way! Who wants to pay half their life savings to some douche bag in a suit who got his license off the internet, just to tell you to bond more with your significant other and try to have more sex? Thanks Einstein, but how do you make her want to have more sex in the first place? Well, let me save you a few thousand dollars and the headache by giving you some tips to keep your wife interested in your dick, long after the honeymoon is over. Tips that don’t require tickets to Paris and a Prada handbag (although that would totally work in your favor).
Imagine buying yourself a new lawn mower, motorbike or some fancy hand tool. You’d take care of that hunk of metal, wouldn’t you? Cleaning it up, oiling its parts, probably even giving the thing a name. Your relationship needs the same level of care and commitment as your new chainsaw does, if you don’t give it care and attention, it’s going to rust and jam up. The same goes for your woman, if you don’t put in the time to care for her, she won’t want to do those deliciously nasty things that only she can do for you. So how do you keep your wife interested in having sex with you time after time, as often as you wish she would? Foreplay is your best friend, yet again.
Give Her a Sensual Massage
It’s as easy as a towel, a bottle of scented massage oil and your hands. Once a week give her a full body massage, complete with essential body oils you can buy online, or even simple baby oil you can pick up at any store. If you do want to add a sultry fragrance, then online sex stores carry a range of tantalizing nontoxic body oils that won’t irritate her skin, oils that are designed for use from head to toe, and all the fun parts in between. You don’t need to be an expert masseuse, you just need to run your strong hands over her soft, wet skin, relaxing her muscles and awakening her erogenous zones.
Lay the towel on your bed, floor or massage table (if you happen to have one laying around) and get her to strip down naked. Either warm the oil to begin with or drip it on her skin cold, shocking her skin and soothing it again with your warm hands. Begin with her shoulders and neck, slowly caressing and working her muscles gently, you’re only a few minutes in and the seduction has already begun. Move your hands down her spine and over her ass cheeks, down to the inside of her thighs, and back up again, the electricity will pulse straight to her sweet spot without you touching it. It won’t take long before she is horny as hell and it’s time to turn her over. Again, run your hands over her entire body avoiding touching that throbbing pussy for just a few more minute. Teasing fires up a woman’s libido like you wouldn’t believe, so much so that when you do finally get your hands onto that pussy, she’ll be exploding on impact and begging for you to be inside her. Hot wild sex, slippery bodies sliding across each other, dicks and dildos plunging holes of all sorts, this is what you’ll get from giving her a much-needed weekly massage.
Romance Isn’t Dead
Do you know what is a surprise to any woman these days? Genuine romance. It isn’t expected that a man will shower affection onto his wife anymore as the olden days would portray. Writing sonnets and serenading her under the moonlight doesn’t seem to be high on men’s to-do lists, and I’m not suggesting it should be (unless you’re John Legend). There are other ways to show your affection and bring a little romance into her life, scoring you a ticket straight into her panties.
Ask her out on a date, just like you used to before you were married, one where you are trying to win her heart and fuck her senseless all in the same evening. If you set the mood right from the beginning, she is far more likely to want to fuck you by the end of the night, or at some point throughout it. Pay attention to the way she looks, what she smells like, compliment every part of her divine feminine body and whisper during dinner all the things you want to do to it. Use this as a form of foreplay. Touch her in risqué places while you’re out at dinner, whispering into her ear. This promotes romance and gets the blood flowing. Date night is a well-known relationship saver, and an almost guarantee of getting laid by the end of the night so keep it up.
Self-Care For the Modern Man
Between date nights and sensual massage nights, there is somethings you can do every day that will make you more appealing to your wife. Take care of yourself. Actively giving a shit what you look like after she’s said “I do” is a big factor in keeping her interested in wanting to fuck you till death do you part. Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you should let your looks, health and hygiene slip. I’m not asking you to go to the gym every day, I’m talking about basic everyday activities that keep you at your most attractive state. Balance out the good and bad in your diet and get in an hour walk every day to keep that libido pumping. The healthier you are the more sex you can have, and the more satisfying it will be for both of you. The pros outweigh the cons in every aspect of this one, so don’t even bother trying to get out of it.
Passion is Always in Fashion
Women are very passionate beings so remember that when you want to go to pound town. Foreplay isn’t just touching. It should be passionate. That means long sessions of kissing, deep tongue action, and a lot of groping and teasing. Females are more aroused and likely to orgasm if you mess around for at least 15-25 minutes (preferably more) prior to sticking your dick in her. Take time with her body and prolong her orgasm with slow kisses all over her naked skin, all her senses will come to life, from head to toe. You can make her feel like the sexiest woman alive by touching and kissing her entire body, telling her how hot she is and how much you want to fuck her. Trust me, she loves hearing it and will be more eager to show you the untamed version of her sexy side.
Throw in some passionate embraces during your normal everyday routine to add spice and surprise. When she comes home from work, take her bag from her, push her up against the wall and shove your tongue in her mouth and down her neck. Then go serve dinner, leaving her breathless and in shock. If you make it to dessert without some clothing coming off, I’d be surprised. Show her and tell her how desirable she is as often as you can, and you will reap the rewards of more satisfying and passionate sex.
Give and Don’t Take
Giving pleasure without receiving any back on occasion can be very beneficial to your sex life overall. Do you know how many guys want to bring a woman to orgasm without their dick being touched or sucked? Not many, so how about you be that guy for her. Dedicate one night here and there to her pleasure alone. Not every woman can climax from just sex so it makes sense to devote your time to bringing her orgasmic pleasure with the use of your hands and your mouth. Giving her oral sex without letting her return the favor is something that sticks in a woman’s mind, as does treating her body like the temple of a Goddess.
Invest in some sexy gifts like finely designed erotic toys, vibrators, feathers, whips, nipple clamps and handcuffs. Buy her some cute sexy lingerie that you know she will love, and that you can picture yourself ripping off with your teeth. Women love to dress up so surprise her with some raunchy numbers you’ve picked out. Get a little naughtier and buy some costumes for roleplay nights, things you’ve dreamed of seeing her in that will bring both your fantasies to life.
It’s no secret or surprise that women are designed a bit different to men, especially in the bedroom. We think differently, behave differently and are aroused in different ways. Women need a bond to have sex whereas men need sex to form a bond. Hey, I wish I had made that up, but it’s based on real scientific data, so work with it.