How to Increase Your Pleasure with Foreplay
Foreplay is the new sex in my opinion, and it seems in the opinions of many. You see foreplay opens the doors to unlimited sexual experiences, heightens orgasms and is a far more intimate way of becoming closer to your partner. Think of it this way, for women, having his balls in your mouth is a much more effective way of learning how he ticks than staring at the ceiling in the missionary position.
Studies have found that men enjoy foreplay even more than women, a fact I find astonishing but anyway, we’ll carry on. It is a time they can explore their partner’s body in ways not possible with standard sex, and it’s not as physically demanding as 45 minutes of doggy style on the knees and on her poor coochie. Sure, a spontaneous session of hot sex is a great addition to any shitty day but what about being able to turn your partner on without penis penetration in ways never thought possible? What if you could bring your girl to orgasm every time guaranteed, with the help of some sexy foreplay techniques and your own mouth, hands and teeth? Let’s explore some of the techniques and tricks you can use in the bedroom to ramp up the desire for both of you.
The Magical Trio
We are all equipped with 3 of the most useful tools known to be needed in the world of foreplay. Your hands, tongue and your teeth. When used together you can bring your partner to the heights of orgasm and beyond, it’s all about knowing how to use them. The art of kissing sometimes slips in a relationship but having a deep tongue pash with your partner awakens and arouses all other zones of the body. Kissing is intimate and passionate; the flow of each other’s tongues and the raised intensity is the only the beginning.
Your partner’s neck and earlobes are highly sensitive to soft touch so try running your lips across them, gently biting on their ear and running your tongue down their neck. Guys love this too whether they’ll admit it or not, so ladies, give his ear lobe a little bite, a gentle suck and watch his reaction. Nipples and breasts are literally made for mouths and having them sucked on and gently bitten is a huge turn on, and a must in the world of foreplay. Remember not to bite too hard, you want to raise their sexual arousal not cause severe pain or damage. Subtle and gentle nips here and there with your teeth are a huge turn on and will make your partner feel so desirable that you could eat them.
Take turns exploring each other’s body with your mouth and tongue. Explore areas that are usually ignored like stomachs, hips and inner thighs. Your hands will be busy touching, squeezing and probing while your mouth is tasting every delicious part of them. There are places on our bodies we don’t even know are linked to sexual stimulation until they are touched, so don’t be shy in your choice of areas you let that sexy mouth explore. Multi-tasking has never been so erotic as when you use your imagination and the magical trio of foreplay.
Props For Playtime
Foreplay is the time to bring out the magical box of sex toys, fetish garments and bondage gear you’ve been hiding in the cupboard, or that you are yet to buy (but totally will after reading this). If you like a little pleasure and pain, foreplay is the time to inflict it. Blindfold your partner and run a feather over their naked body, from their faces to their toes. Use a small whip to spank areas of their bodies and then return the sensation of the feather, tricking their senses with your wicked ways.
If you want to push the envelope of seduction you can use body wax and blocks of ice. Drip small amounts of the wax onto your partner’s skin (preferably blindfold them to build anticipation) and then trace the ice cube over the area, letting it melt on their sexy hot skin. Don’t leave either the hot or cold elements of this on your partner’s skin for too long, even ice burns so the idea is to keep switching and moving around the body.
Use your dildo, vibrators, love beads, handcuffs and more during foreplay. Vibrators aren’t only for being used on the vagina so buzz that baby all over each other’s body’s to find your most sensitive areas or explore the other tunnels of love. These toys were invented for a reason so best we put them to good use.
Body On Body Massage
Giving your partner a seductive massage is always a great idea, but how about taking it to the next level with a style of massage that has seen a spike in its sexual popularity in recent times. It is called the Nuru massage and is thought to have been developed in Japan. Nuru massage involves the masseuse to be completely naked and use their body, covered from head to toe in oil, to rub over the recipient.
The original form of the massage didn’t involve any penis penetration, just stimulation of the entire body, but because it’s the two of you, a little slip the dick in action is bound to happen… There are more tame versions like B2B massage where body parts are used as well as hands, but B2B is frankly not hot enough for you guys so I suggest you focus on Nuru.
Now, there are proper plastic massage beds for sale online that are designed for this purpose and will limit the mess (trust me there will be a lot), but if you can’t afford one, don’t have the time, etc., there are other ways. You’ll need a good-sized sheet of plastic, (the size of a Queen-sized bed should do) a few large towels that you don’t mind getting soaked in oil, and of course a large bottle of massage oil in your desired scent or flavor. Yes, there are edible massage oils available and no, that doesn’t mean you can drink the bottle. These oils are safe to get in your mouth and are designed to taste like your favorite flavors! Some of the options I find to be most mouth-watering are Watermelon and Strawberry, Coconut and Lime, Rum and Raisin, Caramel Truffle and White Chocolate and Raspberries. Trust me, the flavor list alone is incredible to read through and suited to everyone’s palette.
Both of you should get to try out being the masseuse and the recipient, as both have their benefits to be experienced. Mostly though, in instructional videos and porn dedicated to Nuru, the woman in the relationship is the one who covers herself in massage oil and is the masseuse. She uses her naked body instead of her hands, to rub all over her partner’s back, shoulders, legs and everywhere else she can slide along. The slippery sensation of being massaged by soft bouncing titties and having your partner’s silky wet pussy glide across your skin, may prove too much for even the strongest willed man.
The idea is to intensify both of your orgasms by holding off on actual intercourse for as long as possible. You may not even get to the intercourse stage because the actions of the massage are too intense, but if you do it will be one of the most X-rated, insanely intense orgasms you’ve ever experienced. This will quickly become your favorite and only way you want to be massaged for the rest of your life so be warned before you indulge.
Foreplay is a Requirement
Foreplay is the winning ticket to a lifetime of pleasurable sex with your partner. The options of what you can get up to during foreplay are endless, exciting and stimulating to say the least. From using your hands and mouth, to using props and toys, to getting down and slimy, it is the best part of sex and makes orgasms too intense to handle. Even a steamy shower together or a warm bat can be the beginning steps leading to foreplay, which then leads to hot sex. Anywhere you can get slightly naked and have access to slippery lotions, you’ve got yourselves an opportunity for some raunchy foreplay.
It has so many positives that it can’t be ignored or forgotten. More than one area can be concentrated on during foreplay, not just the genitals, a fact that outdoes any ‘Wham bam thank you Ma’am’ moment you’ve had in the past. There will be no more boring sex in the same 3 positions as always, you’re about to get creative and downright dirty, finding new ways to tease and arouse each other using everything you can get your mouth and hands on. Sex without foreplay is still great, but sex with it included is next level, mind blowing amazing. Exploring each other’s bodies in new ways gives you confidence in yourself and your partner, bringing couples closer together in more ways than one. Give foreplay the chance to open new doorways of sexual opportunities with your partner. Feel the intensity in not only your orgasm, but also in your revived sexual relationship with each other.