4 New Foreplay Ideas
I can’t stress enough the importance of foreplay in a healthy sexual relationship. Without it, orgasms are still going to happen, but for some of us (mainly women) the road to any kind of orgasm can be a long and sometimes boring one. It takes passion, touching and attention to keep a satisfying sexual relationship going with your partner. And those sexy ideas planted in your brain certainly won’t go astray. When most people think of the word ‘foreplay’ they may think of the usual kissing, boob grabbing and exploration of fingers in holes, but I’m sure we can make that a little more exciting. We’re not in high school anymore after all…
Aside from digital fucking and snogging, what can you do as a couple that will shift the gears of foreplay from boring and predictable to downright dirty and delectable? Let’s find out by enhancing and exploring the world of foreplay beyond the limits of our previous knowledge and expectations.
Foreplay Option #1: Give Porn a Second Chance
Porn has come such a long way in the past few decades and there’s a world of it at your feet in every style and theme you can think of (even anime porn that isn’t for the faint hearted). If someone has thought of it, someone else has made a porno out of it… So let your wildest inhibitions go by beginning your night of untamed love with a raunchy porno to get you both in the mood.
Porn isn’t just about getting those hormones fired up, it can be somewhat educational when seeking out new tips and tricks in the world of foreplay. We can all learn a lot from porn especially considering most of the scenes played out consist of 90% foreplay and 10% intercourse with obligatory ‘Cum Shots.’ After watching a round with your partner open the lines of discussion about it. What aspects did you both like or dislike, was there anything that you’d try out or want to watch again? You’ll more than likely discover that just talking about it is a major turn on for both of you, and you can plan out your next sexy session using ideas you’ve watched and loved together.
Foreplay Option #2: Play a Game
A great way to try new things without having to come up with ideas of your own is to purchase a sex game either online or at a sex shop. Don’t be embarrassed, these games are becoming more and more popular amongst couples who want to spice up their love lives just like you, or just have a little extra fun.
Most of the games include cards, dice and sometimes even a board. There are a range of games to browse through and purchase online, even sexual revamps of your old favorites. With titles like Sexopoly, DIY Dirty Jenga, Strip Twister and a newbie called Nookii, you’re sure to find the perfect game (or 5) to make your night more exciting and try new things. Most of the games can be found on sites like eBay, Amazon and the hundreds of more specialized online sex stores.
Another winning game for you and your partner to try out that’s simple and doesn’t involve any props or decks of cards is called ‘The Kissing Game’ or ‘Warmer/Colder.’ Have your partner lie down with their eyes closed or with a blindfold on. Start by gently kissing random parts of their body, farthest from their erogenous zones as possible. Let each next kiss be guided by the call from the recipient of “warmer” or “colder,” then stop and swap just as you reach their sweet spots. A seductive kiss on the tip of his cock, a flick of the tongue on her clit just before you change roles will drive your partner crazy with desire while they wait for their turn to come back around.
Of course, you can come up with your own games too, make some cards of your own with details of a new sex act on each or an item of clothing to be removed, or run around the house playing naked Marco Polo, strip poker or hide and seek with a twist. Almost any game you can think of can be turned into sexy fun if you just get a little imaginative. Game night just became the most anticipated evening of your week, guaranteed. Do not pass Go, do not collect $200, you’re going straight to the whore house!
Foreplay Option #3: Get Out of The House
The best thing about foreplay is you can start it anywhere and anytime you like. If you and your partner are out for the day, build up the tension throughout and make his/her desire intensify to the breaking point. Make it your secret mission to touch his/her face and hair, give dirty compliments about how fine that ass is looking or how sweet those tits look in that shirt. Men can run their hands slowly up the inside of her thigh under the table at lunch or while driving. Hover near that hot zone of sex long enough to hear it whimper in frustration and then stop. Tease the animal…
Flirt with your partner like you’re trying to get in their pants for the first time and you’re not afraid to show it. Look deep into their eyes during your day and boldly proclaim how much you want to fuck them right there on the spot, it’s a killer move with zero effort. All day long the hormones will be building like an inferno so screw what anyone else thinks, this is about you and the love of your life, PDA it up baby!
Foreplay Option #4: Nice to Meet You!
Do you remember what it was like when you were single and picked up some random at the bar? Or when you went on a first date with all the butterflies, nerves and sexual tension flying in the air? Recreate those awkward hormone fueled times with your partner by going on a “First Date” date night. It could be that you know each other and are on that first ever date, or you’re both complete strangers with a back story. It might sound awkward at first but after a few minutes in your chosen roles for the evening, the flirting and teasing will begin to come naturally, and your focus will begin to flow in the direction of the nearest back seat or alley way.
To prepare for your “mystery person” night write down a bunch of scenarios and characters you’d like to include and throw them in a couple of containers. Pick out both a scenario and character for each other and roll with it from there. It might sound slightly embarrassing but please just give it a go! Experts found that after the first 30 seconds of pretending to be in that role, (even if the situation feels a bit ridiculous) couples start to unknowingly get more and more into character and start enjoying themselves more than they thought. Mystery Person night doesn’t have to be played out in public either, you can always have the character/scene tubs handy for an extra fun activity to do in the privacy of your own home.
Yes? No? Maybe so?
There are hundreds of ways to enhance foreplay to maximum level, you just need an open mind and some wicked ideas. If you’re ever struggling to come up with new foreplay ideas, are too shy to say them out loud, or just want some added kick to ideas you’ve already thought of, then there are a range of downloadable games and question cards called Yes/No/Maybe for couples. You and your partner go through the cards/checklist of different sex acts ticking off yes, no or maybe showing what you’re willing to try in the bedroom, and how far you will go. It’s actually a very healthy way of communicating your hidden desires to your partner in a fun and educational way, even the shyest of people can express their untamed sex fueled side.
There is always time for foreplay and in fact, it reigns supreme over intercourse in most situations. You and your partner can reach soul shaking orgasms in exciting, fun new ways or build the tension up for the best sex you’ve ever had. Let’s be honest here, you pick a partner in life for a reason; to fuck their brains out in the wildest ways possible for the rest of your lives. Your options for pleasure will be endless once you release your inhibitions and old school 3rd base rules.