How Sex Clubs Can Help Improve Your Sex Life
The Ancient Greeks and Romans really had their shit together when it came to expressing their sexuality. Artist’s depictions of the times show people of high stature such as Emperors and Caesars engaged in orgies or ‘sex parties.’ A brief look through some of the most famous paintings in history show how indulgent these events were and can be seen in such pieces as “The Romans in their decadence” by Thomas Couture. His artwork shows that eating, drinking and having sex with each other were quite literally preached and encouraged. People’s inhibitions were seemingly non-existent, as they explored their sexuality in all its forms. There are hundreds of oil paintings in existence from nations across the globe that depict these lavish affairs in all their hedonistic glory, and I urge you and your partner to check them out when you’re bored.
The sex party trend didn’t end with the reign of the Caesars though, it carried on throughout the ages, but was modified to suit each new era. In the 1920’s for example, the events were named “Petting Parties” and by 1924 at least 92% of women had attended one. The petting parties involved the agreement of no actual intercourse, just a lot of kissing, fondling and experimentation. These parties were a safer and healthier way for those women to express their sexual freedom, without the risks and consequences of unplanned pregnancies and disease.
The Sexual Revolution
Although various governments attempted to stop those parties of the roaring 20’s, they instead became more and more popular as time went on. The lure of sexual freedom outweighed the opinions of stiff politicians who wanted to control people’s sexual activities and desires, resulting in the birth of the sexual revolution.
The sexual revolution of the 1950’s saw the invention and introduction of birth control, which changed the face of erotic freedom once more. This breakthrough in science and lifestyle changed the somewhat innocent petting parties of the 20’s into wild, uninhibited sex parties.
By the 1970’s the revolution had peaked, and sex parties paved the way for sex clubs and swinger's clubs which are still functioning today. If you aren’t aware, swinger clubs are places that couples can swap partners for the evening and engage in fornication without damage to their relationships. It is seen as a healthy way for people to experiment with others without the element of cheating on their partners.
Modern Day Sex Clubs
Fast forward to today where the world of sex clubs has become an accepted part of society, no longer shunned by the masses. Sex clubs hold legal events where the safety and satisfaction of their patrons is paramount. Identification is a requirement of the individuals who partake in the events and legal contracts are drawn up. These contracts outline guest’s expectations, limits and intentions whilst at the club, and outlines each club’s specific rules. If these rules aren’t followed, the patrons in question are thrown out, charged and banned from further events. This provides protection and peace of mind for everyone involved and guarantees a satisfaction packed night.
But what has all of this got to do with you and your partner? A lot, especially if thoughts of screwing each other in front of people and watching other couples do the same seems alluring. If you and your partner want a new experience that’s both legal and acceptable then perhaps you should consider trying a night out at a sex club…
Sex Clubs and Your Sex Life
While you might presume that the intentions of people who attend these sex clubs is to only bang strangers, this doesn’t have to be the case. Most couples who attend aren’t there to swap partners at all, they go for the atmosphere and excitement of being allowed to fuck the shit out of their partner in front of others, a fantasy that lingers in the secret desires of many of us. It allows them to be voyeuristic without risking the health and safety of everyone involved, and without risking their relationship. Those who do wish to partner swap attend the previously mentioned swinger's parties, which are designed specifically for that purpose. Sex clubs give the freedom to stick with your partner with the options of experimenting with others.
This is where the contracts come in. Although some couples may want the experience of being able to flirt, touch and kiss other couples, they may not want to have sex with them. State yours and your partners terms and conditions in the contract, saving you from embarrassment, awkward situations and hurt feelings. If all acts are agreed to in contracts, then no harm can be done, and you get exactly what you came for.
Sharing your partner for fleeting minutes and then having them all to yourself is a bold and erotic act that isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, and one that requires tremendous levels of trust. I would recommend attending the events with your partner under a “Don’t Stray” policy to begin with, as trust is built with honor, respect and time.
There are quite a lot of options and benefits to trying out a night at a sex club, benefits that can intensify and strengthen your sex life when you go home as well, even just the fact that you both went to one. The memories of the evening alone will increase your desires for each other and open new doorways of pleasure you may never have thought you’d experience. The more you’re willing to consider and give a try, the more you will bond with your partner in all aspects of your lives.
Participating in group sex can also teach you things in the bedroom that you might not have considered before. Varying positions, role play scenarios, and the use of sex toys at such events can be inspirational when it comes to releasing your sexual inhibitions and heightening your experiences together. Nothing says I love and trust you more than going to a sex fueled party and leaving together satisfied, relationship intact, and with a wicked and wild experience to look back on.
The world of sex was once celebrated in a free and unashamed fashion, but somehow this freedom became oppressed over time. Sex clubs and parties have brought back the electric communal energy and sexual expression that was completely normal in the past. They have given us all the opportunities to let go of our constricted views and have given sex the dignity and respect it deserves, an honor once practiced and preached by ancient royals.
If you think you might want to dip your toes into the seductive world of orgies, yet don’t want to risk your relationship, then talk in depth with your partner before committing to anything. Do some research together online and open your eyes to a new world of pleasure. Look up sex clubs in your area or in another town entirely, especially if you’re a bit nervous about running into people in the supermarket. Find one you’re both comfortable with and book in for the wildest night of your lives! Make sure you check out the oil paintings of the greats together as well, simply type in ‘historical paintings of orgies’ and look at the exquisite depictions of communal pleasure and indulgence.